Feelings!
People lose so much as a result of intolerance, impatience, inability to overcome feelings of anger, inability to stop talking when one needs stay silent and then say things one would regret later, and acting on assumptions!
On the other hand, those who do not fall into these traps and remain patient gain so much!
Everyone wants to gain and yet not all can show the necessary patience!
Allah (ﷻ) knows best.
Ahmet Şahin Uçar